I have a good life. Good job. Great family. A house in the Milwaukee suburbs with enough yard for my young kids to run, play and have a real childhood. We even have enough room for chickens and ducks. By most measures I've hit the milestones a young millennial dad should. Almost four years ago my wife Mandy and I were blessed with our first son, Gavin. At that moment — like any new dad — I had a lot of ideas about how I was going to raise my kid the right way and give him the